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They Can Do It…Really!

Jun 13 2017

They Can Do It…Really!

We always  tell our children that they can do it; they can be whatever they want to be. When my five kids were young and as they grew up, I said the same thing. While I spoke those words, I also had an image of what “doing it” should look like.

 

Last week I attended my niece’s graduation from San Francisco State University. While I felt the exhilaration of her success, I pondered on how her journey had not taken the expected route. She had been interrupted, challenged and delayed. All the while, she had maintained the dream of graduating from college and becoming a social worker.

 

Becoming a mom interrupted her education. She earned a medical assistant’s certificate so that she could support herself and her child. This deviation delayed the completion of her bachelor’s degree by a few years.

 

Now that she has graduated, she will continue her education and earn an MSW in order to reach her ultimate goal of becoming a medical social worker. When we first told her that she could be whatever she wanted to be, we never imagined the turn her life would take.

 

It was very difficult for her to be a mom and go to college at the same time, but she is a much stronger and more responsible person as a result of her challenge. As her family, we had to find ways to support her dream and encourage her to stay the course even though it was not the path we had originally envisioned for her.

 

Helping Our Children Believe in Themselves

As our children grow into their lives, their journeys may take them on unexpected paths. As parents, we will be challenged to continue to support and encourage our children’s dreams and goals. It is difficult to let go of our image of what the journey should look like, but If we mean what we say, they CAN become whatever they want to be. We may need to support them when the challenges come, but they CAN do it! They may even grow stronger as a result of the detour along their journey.

 

With love and affection,

Rosemarie

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Rosemarie Perez, Parenting

Rosemarie Pérez has worked with English learners and their families in public education for more than twenty years. She has served as a bilingual teacher, professional developer, and district administrator. Administrative roles included serving as the Director of English Learners for an elementary school district and as a Coordinator of Reading and Language for the San Mateo County Office of Education. Rosemarie continues to work with families as she leads the Santa Clara County Office of Education’s Parent Engagement Initiative during the past three years. Ms. Pérez provides expert guidance to teachers, school site staff, and school administrators in creating culturally sensitive parent training modules and academic curricular units. She facilitates parent education and Common Core Standards workshops. Engaged parents are further trained to become parent leaders and advocates. Rosemarie is the mother of five adult children and three grandchildren.

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Written by Rosemarie Perez, Parenting · Categorized: College Life, Parenting Adolescents · Tagged: #problem solving #parenting teens

Comments

  1. Karen Salzer says

    June 13, 2017 at 9:19 pm

    Thank you for another thought-provoking article. I always enjoy reading your blogs and congratulations to your niece.

    • Rosemarie Perez says

      June 14, 2017 at 12:26 pm

      Thanks, Karen. We’re very proud of her.

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