Kids Learn to Express Themselves Through Writing

During the last weeks of school, our primary grade students learned about various types of soil and mud when planting flowers, studying the uses of mud, and learning how to use computers for research in 10-page reports.

What the Students Researched

1. Learning how to write an introduction to the report
2. Writing about descriptions and uses for clay soil, loamy soil, and sandy soil
3. Planting a flower and writing about the type of soil used for planting
4. Listing the steps completed to make mud and plant a flower
5. Learning how to calculate how much water is needed for making mud in different quantities
6. Completing a soil and mud research checklist for added research in books and on the computer
7. Writing a book report on mud and soil uses
8. Writing a computer report on mud and soil uses
9. Completing a reflection questionnaire of what was learned
10. Creating a glossary of new vocabulary words used in the report

How Students Learned to Use Their Own Words

Throughout this project, students were encouraged to summarize what they read in their own words. Most students were successful in completing this task without teacher assistance:

1. When listing the steps to make mud and planting a flower
2. Completing a research checklist
3. Writing a report introduction
4. Writing a reflection of what they learned
5. Completing a glossary of new vocabulary words

When writing about various types of soil, most students preferred to copy the technical information. Many students did not copy every word in the informational text. Book reports were completed by students on a topic they wanted to learn more about. Various nonfiction reading level books were available for student use.

The computer report was the most challenging for students to complete. Most students had never summarized online technical resources and articles. Many started the assignment by copying text. As the students became more familiar with the online content, many were able to apply what they read to everyday life.

How to Support Challenged Students

When some students were very frustrated with an assignment, we used very basic reading samples and had students copy a couple of sentences. Next, we interviewed them and asked them how they might use this knowledge in their daily lives. We also created sentence frames. Sentence frames are very simple sentences that students can complete in their own words. For example, a sentence frame might state that clay soil is comprised of very fine mineral particles and is sticky. Then students can complete a sentence frame that says clay soil will ___________. We then ask students if they think clay soil will make a puddle or will soak into the ground. Students typically responded that clay soil makes a puddle because they experienced that result when making clay mud. Once students were able to talk about a challenging topic in their own words, they slowly became more confident in writing simple sentences about what they  learned. We also had capable students tutor and assist their more challenged peers. This one-on-one tutoring support was incredibly helpful as students could share more personalized help with their peers.

Student Led Evaluations

My next blog post will describe how we constructed a Mud Report Student Evaluation for each student that highlighted their competencies in five different areas. Nearly 53% of the students in our project received a Level 4 Emerging Expert Evaluation overall rating because they were able to complete work independently and wrote their report using their own words on several assigned pages.

Help for Struggling Students

As a K–3 special education teacher, I’ve learned that some of our students struggle loudly—and some struggle quietly. And sometimes, they struggle in that in-between space: big enough behaviors that everyone notices… but not yet formally supported by a Tier 2 or Tier 3 plan.

If you’re a parent or teacher seeing behaviors that clearly need more than just reminders and redirection—but there’s no formal intervention plan in place yet—this post is for you.

Some behaviors don’t quite fit into “typical classroom challenges,” but they also don’t yet have a formal Tier 2 or Tier 3 plan attached to them. As parents and teachers, that in-between space can feel frustrating and uncertain. We know a child needs more support—but we’re still waiting on meetings, data, or next steps. The good news? We don’t have to wait for paperwork to begin helping. There are practical, proactive strategies we can start right away to support students who need more structure, regulation, and skill-building.

First, Let’s Ground Ourselves in MTSS

In a Multi-Tiered System of Supports (MTSS), Tier 1 is what all students receive: clear expectations, consistent routines, and positive reinforcement. Tier 2 provides targeted, small-group or structured supports. Tier 3 is individualized and intensive. But here’s the reality: sometimes there’s a lag between recognizing a need and having a formal Tier 2 or Tier 3 plan written and implemented. During that gap, kids still need support. And we can give it.

Step 1: Shift from “Why are they doing this?” to “What is this behavior communicating?”

Behavior is communication. A child who refuses work may be saying:

“This feels too hard.”

“I don’t know how to start.”

“I’m overwhelmed.”

A child who disrupts may be saying:

“I need attention.”

“I need movement.”

“I feel out of control.”

Instead of reacting to the surface behavior, we respond to the unmet need underneath it.

Step 2: Increase Structure Immediately.

Students who likely need Tier 2 or 3 supports almost always benefit from more structure—not more consequences.

Try:

• Visual schedules (even simple sticky note checklists)
• First/Then language (“First math, then drawing.”)
• Clear start and finish markers
• Breaking work into smaller chunks
• Timers for both work and breaks

Structure lowers anxiety. Lower anxiety lowers behavior.

Step 3: Pre-Teach Expectations.

Many of our students who struggle behaviorally don’t lack motivation—they lack clarity. Before a known trigger (recess, transitions, group work), preview expectations:

“When we line up, our hands stay by our sides.”

“During centers, we use quiet voices.”

“If you feel frustrated, you can raise your hand or use your break card.”

Role-play it. Practice it. Reinforce it immediately when you see it.

Step 4: Increase Positive Feedback (More Than Feels Natural).

If a student is likely headed toward Tier 2 or 3, they are often hearing more corrections than praise.

Flip the ratio.

Catch:

• The 30 seconds they stayed in their seat.
• The one safe choice they made.
• The moment they tried again.

Specific praise builds replacement behaviors:

“I noticed you started even though it felt hard.”

“You kept your hands safe.”

“You asked for help instead of shutting down.”

We grow what we notice.

Step 5: Offer Regulated Breaks Before Escalation

If you wait until the meltdown, you’re too late. Build proactive regulation:

• Scheduled movement breaks
• Sensory tools
• Calm-down corners
• Short “jobs” that reset the nervous system

At home, this might look like:

• Heavy work (carrying laundry, pushing a vacuum)
• Outside time
• A quiet reset space
• Regulation first. Instruction second.

Step 6: Start Simple Data Collection

Even without a formal plan, start noticing patterns:

• When does it happen?
• What happens right before?
• What happens right after?

You don’t need fancy charts. Sticky notes work. This information helps teams move toward Tier 2 or Tier 3 supports faster—and more effectively.

For Parents: You’re Not “Behind.”

If your child doesn’t yet have a formal behavior plan but clearly needs more support, you are not failing. Schools move through processes. Sometimes they move slowly. Ask:

“What Tier 2 supports can we try?”

“Can we start Check-In/Check-Out?”

“Can we monitor behavior for a few weeks?”

Advocacy doesn’t have to be confrontational. It can be collaborative. Some behaviors don’t quite fit into “typical classroom challenges,” but they also don’t yet have a formal Tier 2 or Tier 3 plan attached to them. As parents and teachers, that in-between space can feel frustrating and uncertain. We know a child needs more support—but we’re still waiting on meetings, data, or next steps. The good news? We don’t have to wait for paperwork to begin helping. There are practical, proactive strategies we can start right away to support students who need more structure, regulation, and skill-building.

Helping English Learners Succeed

When a child walks into school brand new to English, they are doing something incredibly brave. They’re learning new routines, new friendships, new expectations and a whole new language at the same time. That’s a lot for anyone. The good news? With the right support at home and at school, multilingual kids can absolutely thrive.

First, let’s start here: being multilingual is a gift. Research shared by Colorín Colorado and the National Association for the Education of Young Children shows that speaking more than one language strengthens thinking skills, problem-solving, and flexibility. So instead of seeing English as something a child is “behind” in, it helps to see all the language they already have as a huge strength.

Keep the Home Language Strong

Parents, keep speaking your strongest language at home. Tell stories. Ask questions. Laugh. Read together. A strong foundation in a child’s first language actually helps them learn English faster. You are not “confusing” them—you are building their brain.

Teachers, use their name correctly. Invite families to share traditions or favorite books. Even small efforts show children that who they are matters.

Make Things Visual and Clear

When kids are learning English, they understand more when they can see what’s happening. Pictures, gestures, modeling, and clear examples make a big difference.

At school, that might mean showing what to do instead of only explaining it. At home, it might look like previewing new topics. If your child is learning about weather, talk about rain, snow, or sunshine in your home language first. When they hear those ideas again in English, they’ll connect the dots more easily.

Be Patient with Talking

Many children go through a “silent period” when learning a new language. They may listen carefully but say very little. That’s normal. They are absorbing everything.

Instead of pushing them to speak before they’re ready, focus on helping them feel safe. Smile. Offer encouragement. Celebrate effort. Confidence grows when children feel accepted, not corrected at every turn. Social language comes more easily than academic language. It all takes time.

Support “School Words”

Kids often learn playground English faster than classroom English. They might chat easily with friends but struggle with words like “compare,” “predict,” or “explain.”

Parents can help by asking open-ended questions like, “Tell me what you learned today,” or “Why do you think that happened?” It’s okay if they answer in your home language—that thinking still counts. Teachers can help by modeling sentence starters like, “I think ___ because ___.”

Stay Connected

Clear, kind communication between home and school matters so much. If something is confusing, ask questions. Schools want families involved, even if language feels like a barrier. Translation tools and apps can help bridge gaps. Most importantly, remember this: learning a new language takes time. It’s not a race. With patience, encouragement, and teamwork, multilingual children don’t just “catch up.” They grow into confident, capable learners with a powerful skill that will serve them for life.

Strengths While Building Access

When we lead with patience, clear instruction, visual supports, and genuine connection, we create classrooms where language development and confidence grow together. With the right scaffolds and a belief in their potential, our multilingual learners don’t just adjust—they thrive.

Kids Celebrate Legendary Heroes

It is the dead of winter and many students learn and celebrate legendary heroes in daily curriculum assignments. Key themes may focus on Black History Month, presidents’ birthdays, and women’s contributions to history. Three primary grade classes partnered together to learn more about a specific leader’s contributions during a Black History Month project.

Researching, Reading, Writing, and Discussing Legendary Leaders

Summarized below are the various activities students completed on this two-day project:

• Students read and discussed each assigned hero’s contributions to history with classmates in a group setting.
• They then researched biographical information about the leader in published books and through teacher generated online articles and wrote reports about their assigned leader.
• Third grade students researched added information about their assigned hero by using online AI search applications that linked to originally published online articles.
• After 2 hours of reading, writing, and researching, small groups of students met together to complete a biographical information template on the same assigned leader.
• Academically challenged students worked in a teacher led small group to complete their project.
• The teacher then presented a sample completed biographical template on each assigned legendary leader to the small groups for checking the accuracy of their gathered information.
• After completing the written report and the biographical information sheet, students met as a class to share what they learned about each assigned leader. Second-grade students completed research on five leaders. Third grade students completed a comprehensive study on three legendary leaders.
• After further discussion, students assembled their reports and created a poster with a significant fact or quote about their assigned legendary leader. They would use these posters about their assigned hero for a gallery walk with three classes on 8 legendary leaders the next week of school.

The Gallery Walk

On the assigned day, 73 students met in the cafeteria to learn about two different legendary historical leaders. We also wanted to support students in their collaborations through cooperative participation. We clustered and set up chairs for each assigned legendary leader. The reporting second grade students stood by a chair of their assigned leader cluster. The observing third grade students walked around and approached one group of reporting students. Each reporting student held up their sign to educate the observing student. Then the reporting student helped the observing student complete a simplified notetaking form about their assigned leader. After 15 minutes, the third-grade students left the first cluster and approached a second cluster of second grade students of a legendary leader. This process was repeated two more times with the third-grade students acting as reporters and the second-grade students acting as observers.

What We Learned

We must limit the size of the group to only two classes at a time with one class reporting and the other observing and taking notes. This will allow more time for pairing and sharing with a designated leader. It is also suggested that second grade students teach first grade students and third grade students teach second grade students. The younger students learn so much more when interviewing their older peers. We also need to give students more time and guidance to complete their posters of facts and quotes. Some posters were redundant and others could not be read. The poster activity was valued as an incredible learning tool when thoughtfully completed. At the end of the day, the students were thrilled with their leadership and contributions in this project-based learning activity. They were proud of their work as many of these projects were featured in the school’s hallways.

Kids Need Interpersonal Skills at School

In my last post, I wrote about providing kids with opportunities to problem-solve and to engage in socializing without the use of technology.  In this post, I want to continue to explore the idea of the differences between generations and what our children’s generation will need to develop the soft skills that are necessary for success in their futures.

One of my roles as a school principal is to oversee hiring for my school.  Now job applications are collected online. Tools like Indeed and ZipRecruiter make it easy to apply to many jobs with just a few clicks of the mouse. One job posting typically brings in hundreds of applications.  Earlier in my career, job postings would solicit only 15 to 20 applications. Most job applicants were qualified for the job.  Today, many people look for jobs casually with a shotgun approach to submitting job applications. At times, when I reach out to applicants, there’s never a 100% guarantee they are even waiting for my call or my message.

When I do find those applicants who are qualified and responsive, I can usually tell fairly quickly whether or not they will be a good fit personality-wise.  Things like confidence, general attitude, and true experience are revealed pretty quickly.  However, it is important to ask probing interview questions that get to whether or not applicants have developed the soft-skills and interpersonal skills they will need to be successful in the workforce.  In classrooms across our nation, teachers are sharing that kids are lacking these soft-skills with a much higher frequency as the school year progresses.  Many kids are no longer self-motivated. They struggle when asked to work in groups. Often, students approach interactions with education staff and peers with a strong sense of entitlement.

Teaching Kids Essential Interpersonal Skills

Certainly, there are kids in the classroom who still possess these skills.  They come to school ready to learn, ready to socialize, and ready to follow school expectations.  But in a classroom of 30 students 20 years ago, you may have had one or two students who entered the classroom with a skills-deficit.  Today, there are more likely 12-15 students who still need to develop one or more of those highly important abilities.  Schools are doing some important interventions to help kids learn these skills on the fly, during content instruction:

• Engaging kids in group work with structured roles
• Project-based learning to help kids identify and solve problems
• Service learning to make the content projects more community-based and relevant
• Providing culturally relevant lessons and content to grab students’ interest and help make connections
• Goal setting and monitoring with students to help foster a mind towards the future and self-motivation

How Parents Can Help

As the parent, you can take the lead on helping your child with the school’s staff develop these soft skills!  During parent meetings and conferences, ask about what opportunities the kids have at the school to build social, emotional, and leadership skills.  Examples include:

• Partner with your child’s teacher(s) to address times when your child falls short. Advocate for your child, but make sure you work with other adults to help your child learn when they make mistakes.
• Sign your child up for extracurricular activities that will require teamwork and interaction. These may include sports, martial arts, reading clubs, or youth service teams.
• Make sure your time at home is well-balanced between opportunities to learn and interact and an appropriate amount of screen time.